Me also for my parents. In fact it is a source of tension between one of my parents and I that more emphasis is put on leaving a legacy than on enjoying retirement.
Re my grandparents - I do feel that the wrong grandparents died. Partly because I don't have much time for the remaining grandparent as a person but also partly because if I were her I'd wouldn't find much value in my continued life.
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Date: 2012-03-27 04:25 pm (UTC)Re my grandparents - I do feel that the wrong grandparents died. Partly because I don't have much time for the remaining grandparent as a person but also partly because if I were her I'd wouldn't find much value in my continued life.