"For the record I think men and boys are adversely affected by the current way gender is organised in our society, often in very important ways, and that more men should give some political attention to how they too are disadvantaged by traditional male roles."

I agree. And what I mostly noticed growing up was men/boys being told that they were _bad_ for doing things associated with women, because it made them unmanly.

Removing the stigma on being associated with women would undoubtedly make this better for a lot of men and boys. And is yet another reason to support feminism :->